I'm sorry, but these lessons are crap. The only lesson that matters is actually from the Kenny Rogers song, The Gambler. "The secret to survival, is knowing wha

I'm sorry, but these lessons are crap. The only lesson that matters is actually from the Kenny Rogers song, The Gambler. "The secret to survival, is knowing what to throw away and knowing what to keep" This goes for everything, girls, goals, jobs, ideas and even food =) If you know what you want, you'll never go wrong. Most people don't know what they want, and spend forever trying to find it. But then it's too late.