I may have read too much into the wording of your description there, my apologies. Still, who you're shown to and how often is very much algorithmic on existin

I may have read too much into the wording of your description there, my apologies. Still, who you're shown to and how often is very much algorithmic on existing platforms. People with high rankings are typically shown first and thus get a disproportionate amount of attention. For the system you describe to work equitably (setting aside one gender swipes first), you would need to be shown in non-ranked fashion to users. Major platforms generally don't do that right now for a myriad of reasons which include supply/demand realities, user retention, and straight up greed.