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It's fair to say that there's a balance to be struck here, but I think that strapping a spying device on their wrist is far from that balance. Most parents gra
by Sir_Cmpwn 8y ago
It's fair to say that there's a balance to be struck here, but I think that strapping a spying device on their wrist is far from that balance.
Most parents grant them that autonomy you're talking about way, WAY too slowly. Would you let a 5 year old walk a couple of blocks down to the corner store to buy milk alone? If your answer is no, you're on the "too slow" side of the spectrum in my opinion.
- sokoloff 8y agoI tend to be fairly permissive, but having a 5-year old walk a couple blocks (by definition, crossing at least one street and likely multiple) is not on the right side of the risk spectrum for me. I suspect this depends largely on the local traffic situation (controlled intersections vs not, crosswalks vs not, prevailing traffic speeds and density, etc).
- Sir_Cmpwn 8y agoYour kid can dart into the street even when you're with them. You should teach your kids about traffic safety at an early age, and ideally have made this particular trip with them several times before so that they (1) know how to behave and (2) don't get lost and (3) have been introduced to the shopkeep and others in the neighborhood. It's pretty easy to gradually ramp up to this and to continue ramping up to more indepdendence at a much faster pace than most parents do.