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I believe you're being earnest. I'm taking what you're saying as what you mean. When someone says "I don't believe X" it means they don't believe it. When so
by jamesrcole 8y ago
I believe you're being earnest. I'm taking what you're saying as what you mean.
When someone says "I don't believe X" it means they don't believe it.
When someone says "I don't necessarily believe X" it means they kinda do believe it.
Not one person who believes the world is spherical would ever say (or agree that it correctly captures their view) the statement "I don't necessarily believe the world is flat".
[EDIT: I thought this example might help make things clearer.
version 1:
- wife to husband: you're spending a lot of time with that new co-worker. Do you find her attractive?
- husband: no, I don't find her attractive.
&
version 2:
- wife to husband: you're spending a lot of time with that new co-worker. Do you find her attractive?
- husband: no, I don't necessarily find her attractive.
A husband that genuinely did not find the co-worker attractive would never express things in the second way. It's clear in that second way that he does find her attractive to some extent but doesn't want to say it]
Sometimes "I don't necessarily believe..." is used when the person feels awkward admitting that they have some belief, or when they haven't consciously realised that they do. It can be when they haven't fully admitted it to themselves.
- tjr225 8y agoActually I'm with you. I had to google the definition of "necessarily" and it does imply that I could believe it. Maybe I'm culturally programmed to use the word even if I don't understand it's full meaning when I'm using it? Anyway, I would reword the entire post to remove the word necessarily but I'll leave it in case anyone else reads it and might make the same Mistake.
- jamesrcole 8y agoOk, understood.
- TheAnvil 8y agoThe Earth isn't a sphere! (It's a very rough-surfaced, approximate, oblate spheroid)
- jamesrcole 8y agoOf course but that level of detail would have been unnecessary and distracting in that context.