I also would like to reiterate that her context used to be different before - no judgements. As a competitive pro athlete, you are constant asked and in check w

I also would like to reiterate that her context used to be different before - no judgements. As a competitive pro athlete, you are constant asked and in check with your body and/or emotions. There is also a greater sense of protection/support from the coaches and people involved. Whereas in the professional life, it is usually the opposite, managers are rarely willing to protect employee but extract results at their expense and coworkers couldn’t care less if you have a lower back ache, etc. It is jungle and can be confusing/sad/demotivating to realize that your best is no longer at their best interest. Yet, I find myself as developer still fortunate to have somewhat rational managers and the market condition still in our side mostly.