> kicked person has option to complain about you This is important to you? That will happens code of conduct or not... better be prepared to live with that. >

> kicked person has option to complain about you This is important to you? That will happens code of conduct or not... better be prepared to live with that. > the it is better written. What if it's not written? Your solution is to only allow what's written? That's going to be quite a conundrum and awful to live with. There's reasons why the laws are that large and the court system is required. A small gathering isn't meant to become a simulation of a government you know? If anything bad happens, discuss it together, decide the course of action based on that and act on it. It could be to kick out someone, or it could means for you to go because that's not the kind of interaction that you want to live in a small gathering.