> an attitude of explicitly asking for social expectations vs intuiting them through social context Formalizing rules isn't an attitude of explicitly asking th

> an attitude of explicitly asking for social expectations vs intuiting them through social context Formalizing rules isn't an attitude of explicitly asking them, but an attitude of explicitly telling them. When you ask for them, there's fluidity into them, it's a communication, they can change when you add someone. Once it's formal, they tends to be less fluid and more forced toward any new person.