I have been really trying to make #2 happen but it is tough. The ones who play a certain sport are so good at it that it makes no sense for them to play with m

I have been really trying to make #2 happen but it is tough. The ones who play a certain sport are so good at it that it makes no sense for them to play with me (basketball, tennis, squash) and no one plays the sport that I am good at (soccer) It is so much easier to stay fit when you have a group that regularly do a common activity for fun. Going to the gym isn't bad, but I won't call the activity fun.