How come the rules that restrict Joe Biden’s freedom to touch other people shouldn’t apply to you? There don’t need to be rules about shaking hands or high giv

How come the rules that restrict Joe Biden’s freedom to touch other people shouldn’t apply to you? There don’t need to be rules about shaking hands or high giving because those are mutually consensual actions. Fist bumping a non-receptive individual (aka punching a colleague on the shoulder) is not consensual. For the “vocal minority” which is most women and some men, non-consensual touching is associated with bullying, intimidation, physical coercion and assault. In the workplace we try to avoid emotional arousal because people shouting angrily at each other makes it difficult for others to focus on their work. In social settings, you are free to explore boundaries as long as you are aware that failure to take non-vocal hints can lead to being ostracised from those social circles. But yes, the “vocal minority” should be allowed to define the lines, which are pretty simple even for people who have never had to follow etiquette: other people’s bodies are off limits to you unless they indicate otherwise. By all means go for the high five, but accept that if it is not returned you don’t try forcing it to happen. You have now divined where one boundary existed at one point in time.