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My Girlfriend is a good person and loves me. I am not attracted to here. I am not sure how to leave her. We have a open relationship and sleep with other peopl
by onetimeacc_7897 8y ago
My Girlfriend is a good person and loves me.
I am not attracted to here. I am not sure how to leave her.
We have a open relationship and sleep with other people and occasionally have threesomes. I don't want to be with anybody really. I optimize my life for minimal commitment. I don't want anybody depending on me in any way. I was open about this from the start.
I think that she sometimes is helpless and generally not the smartest person, and i suspect that this is the reason why there is no symmetrical attraction. I don't know what and how to tell here, how to leave and do minimal damage -- the truth, seems to be no option.
- Neil44 8y agoShe probably already senses what you're feeling and suffers emotional damage from it. Since the current situation is hurting everyone involved I would recommend ending it. She will be totally fine. She might surprise you with what she can do when she has to.
- onetimeacc_7897 8y agoThanks for the encouragement to do the right thing asap. Your reply is quite powerful and understandable. Do you practice "Non-Offensive Language"?
- Neil44 8y agoYou mean in a Marshall Rosenberg kind of way? Not deliberately but I always try to keep judgement at bay and avoid guilt tripping people, by understanding that we are all doing the best we can with the cards we are dealt. Also I had a big break up last year.