Your attitude seems astonishingly selfish. The poster should have told their spouse before doing any interviewing that they were considering positions out of t

Your attitude seems astonishingly selfish. The poster should have told their spouse before doing any interviewing that they were considering positions out of town. It's absolutely reasonable to say no when someone comes out of the blue with a request to move out of town. Understand all your constraints and have an open dialog with your spouse before you go interviewing.