I was in the same situation some time back. "Decided" it was time I must change myself. Picked up "The Magic of Thinking Big". I get the general hate towards

I was in the same situation some time back. "Decided" it was time I must change myself. Picked up "The Magic of Thinking Big". I get the general hate towards self-hep books, but in many cases they do create a positive future image and that is essential to take the next step. Get an accountability buddy. Search reddit or discord for that. And go. Use the 5-second rule. Go out in the morning sun. Take the unknown routes. Spark your creativity. Go out of your comfort zone once in a while. It will take time but you'll eventually get better. Spend $100 on a random stock. Learn, improve, adapt. Make notes. You do not need to prove anyone else. Make a commitment to yourself and stick to it.