How would it work if instead of thinking of spiders, you thought of your wife? Would you lose your feelings of love? This seems like an incredible drug, I’d l

How would it work if instead of thinking of spiders, you thought of your wife? Would you lose your feelings of love? This seems like an incredible drug, I’d like to do some self experimentation. Also, if people have been taking this for anxiety, why haven’t they been cured?