“Kids these days” dont have the problem you are experiencing Sure 12 year olds blowing off steam in an FPS will go to quick play but people self organize Many

“Kids these days” dont have the problem you are experiencing Sure 12 year olds blowing off steam in an FPS will go to quick play but people self organize Many obscure mobile games have robust chats with the same regulars and centralized servers Twitch communities and discord groups are pretty wild