It's not clear to me if she's a) complaining for the sake of it, b) looking for advice on how to handle this, or c) offering advice to guys on what not to do.

It's not clear to me if she's a) complaining for the sake of it, b) looking for advice on how to handle this, or c) offering advice to guys on what not to do. Point c is probably really good advice to a lot of people, but she's muddled it so much with points a and b that it's not going to help anyone.