The problem isn't even the wait between the two message, sometimes they won't even ask the question until you confirm that you are there. I want to look at the

The problem isn't even the wait between the two message, sometimes they won't even ask the question until you confirm that you are there. I want to look at the question, then decide if it's something I can answer now, or if I will get back to them later. It depends on many factors such as how busy I am, how complicated the question is, and so on. I could reply "Sort of, depends on your question", but realistically I'll just not reply if they don't ask a real question.