> the SO is unusually accommodating This is what I consider a working relationship. It’s kind of like being poly, each partner has to accommodate the other’s e

> the SO is unusually accommodating This is what I consider a working relationship. It’s kind of like being poly, each partner has to accommodate the other’s external love (for work, as it is). I’ve seen this between pairs of artists, athletes, artist+programmers and musician+designers. It’s never people who have “just a day job” but rather those who view their trade as a superset of their life. The accommodation for the partner is really just understanding and accepting the need to create in another as a legitimate part of the relationship. Since the writer did the same to her husband, I’m assuming this isn’t a big issue...