This is a serious question which i don't understand. I know muslims, jews, buddhists, orthodox, christian, lutherian and atheist people, some are my friends, s

This is a serious question which i don't understand. I know muslims, jews, buddhists, orthodox, christian, lutherian and atheist people, some are my friends, some i know from work. All of them (being in a educated sphere of influence) condemn exclusive traits, like sharia. So why do we (try to) tolerate people trying to adhere to sharia law?