I think what you say here carries a lot of meaning into how parents raise children. Kid is not doing something you like, or not doing something you want it to d

I think what you say here carries a lot of meaning into how parents raise children. Kid is not doing something you like, or not doing something you want it to do? No! Don't do that, or Do this! Why? Because I said so. No TV tonight for you! But, why do we not think to negotiate, and to reason? When we apply for a job, we negotiate with our employer for a salary that benefits us both, right? Thats how it should be. What do companies want? What do users want? What is right, what is wrong. I am not sure that any situation can be found involving two or more parties that differs.