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> discussions around this often get over-run with misogyny and bitterness If the adaptation required is to become part of the 20% of men that 70% of women purs
by TheAdamAndChe 8y ago
> discussions around this often get over-run with misogyny and bitterness
If the adaptation required is to become part of the 20% of men that 70% of women pursue, bitterness from the 80% of less-desirable men is inevitable since they can't compete, which inhibits their ability to obtain a mate and have a good life.
Sure, a mate isn't _technically_ required to live a good life, but in our intensely individualistic society where the number of friends men have is dropping precipitously, relationships form a core of socialization for many men.
- bencoder 8y ago> Sure, a mate isn't _technically_ required to live a good life, but in our intensely individualistic society where the number of friends men have is dropping precipitously, relationships form a core of socialization for many men. Perhaps this is the part where we need to change and improve? Rather than expecting the world or women to align to us.
- belorn 8y agoThis could be said to any gender issue. If money is required to live a good life, but in our intensely individualistic society where the money women have access to is dropping precipitously, work form a core of income for many women. Perhaps this is the part where they need to change and improve? Rather than expecting the world or men to align to them.