> But other than being generally healthy and well-kept, I don't focus on my appearance because grooming is boring. Why spend your time grooming beyond a level o

> But other than being generally healthy and well-kept, I don't focus on my appearance because grooming is boring. Why spend your time grooming beyond a level of general acceptability when you could learn to play an instrument, learn a new language, read a book, or go for a hike? You're right. But I never said that we should focus on appearance to the exclusivity of everything else. In that we agree. But there are people laboring under the idea that you can neglect it by making up for it in other areas. That's what I am trying to refute.