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> what has been burned into my mind as a child How was this done?

• rxhernandez 8y ago
  With my father doing the complete opposite by being abusive as possible without physically touching me.
  • drdeca 8y ago
    :( I’m sorry to hear that, I don’t mean to suggest that shame/guilt aren’t sometimes (often?) overused. I just think that attempting to entirely excise them is a mistake (and that they are at times useful in moderation for certain things).