> just, think for yourself. Is it the best solution to your problem? What is your problem exactly, and what are other ways you could solve it? This is the crux

> just, think for yourself. Is it the best solution to your problem? What is your problem exactly, and what are other ways you could solve it? This is the crux of the issue, psychologically. When making an important decision in the face of uncertainty, having someone else with a lot of clout (or a group of people whose collective wisdom you trust) simply tell what you do feels amazing. That feeling is hard to ignore in favor of constructing your own cost-benefit analysis.