Not fair. A lot of people are not comfortable with confrontation in the first place. And it is entirely normal. It just how people are wired and expecting them

Not fair. A lot of people are not comfortable with confrontation in the first place. And it is entirely normal. It just how people are wired and expecting them to change themselves drastically is not fair on them. It should be a gradual process and a thing like thoughter is a great use for "getting started". End goal is of course to confront.