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Everyone has a stage in their lives when they believe that they are running against a wall and are not moving in their lives. I am 23 and after my "normal educa
by tim123 8y ago
Everyone has a stage in their lives when they believe that they are running against a wall and are not moving in their lives. I am 23 and after my "normal education" (prim. school, hi. school,..) I visited two different universities where I did not succeeded. After these attempts, I found a small company and was in the same position as you are. We worked for a ca rcompany, but I stopped working after 1 months because I did not feel welcome there. What has helped is a break from everything. Find e.g. a forest nearby and go alone through it and most important find a hobby (nature photography is mine). You will see that life has a lot to offer and you will see your life from another perspective. This stage of my life last about three months and I would recommend it to everone who is "running against a wall". After that I found another company and currently I'm working on applications that are almost as old as I am (also almost unreadable code). What I have learned is to go to other team members that work longer on it and ask them questions about the application and the problems I have with it. You can never ask enough questions! And most importantly -> listen to your body!. We are young and we have enough time to learn new things in life and we will work enough in life, but once you get sick it can affect your entire life. Put your head up, go out and do something that makes you happy.
Friends -> pick up your phone and call everony you want to meet. The worst that can happen is that the say " I can´t I am busy" -> call the next one but don´t give up.
"I have some bacon on my ribs" -> buy some running shoes and "Run, Forrest, Run!" (1st week 1 mile, 2nd week 1.1 mile,.. ), cut out soft drinks, fastfood and other "empty foods" -> full of calories no real energy