Talking about it and writing it up are very different things. The reason has to do with later deniability (sometimes things are better forgotten; a lot of women

Talking about it and writing it up are very different things. The reason has to do with later deniability (sometimes things are better forgotten; a lot of women feel that way about their ex-boyfriends). There's a reason why the few girls that keep them are very protective of their diaries.