I get that and feel the same. But as a parent that loves his kids, I'd love to leave them a little something (heck, even help educate the grandkids)...It feels

I get that and feel the same. But as a parent that loves his kids, I'd love to leave them a little something (heck, even help educate the grandkids)...It feels like our legacy is being sapped by the high cost of eldercare. Compare a quarter mil a year to the historical 'Grandma comes home to live with the family' that was not uncommon in the past.