I organise the yearly family Christmas gathering back in our village whenever I am in my home country. The deal is that every working adult is supposed to contr

I organise the yearly family Christmas gathering back in our village whenever I am in my home country. The deal is that every working adult is supposed to contribute a few dollars towards food and drinks. It really isn't much money. Everyone is supposed to chip in, in whatever way they are comfortable. No one is paid to attend and no one is forced to attend. Back to your sentiments, the amount of nonsense I have to put up with from some family members is unbelievable. Luckily there are some good family members who usually step in and put them in their place. So yes people are a problem, even our own family members give us problems. I still organise get together and ignore the naysayers.