I'd like to buy enough upvotes to make this comment appear forever. This is a fantastic post. I have found that at moments with friends and family when the ha

I'd like to buy enough upvotes to make this comment appear forever. This is a fantastic post. I have found that at moments with friends and family when the happy platitudes are stripped away, whether through drunkenness, circumstance, or just plain frank discussion - this is the sentiment that often shows itself. Kudos and thank you for this, lkrubner.