"you're acting like a dickhead" is not an observation, it is a characterisation. "the urge to punch you" could be phrased as "angry" perhaps? "fking professio

"you're acting like a dickhead" is not an observation, it is a characterisation. "the urge to punch you" could be phrased as "angry" perhaps? "fking professionalism" isn't what you need, it is a trait you want the other person to show. What is it that you need?