It seems that you read some implied blame in the question about understanding what's happening. I believe this implication is the problem, and may or may not ac

It seems that you read some implied blame in the question about understanding what's happening. I believe this implication is the problem, and may or may not actually exist, depending on the speaker and listener. A valid interpretation of the same question is that it is asking for a blameless postmortem to find a solution, which may only be inferred by the listener if they understand the speaker to not be blaming them. Am I off base on any of this?