That is what Empathy is. When you can only view the world in terms of who to hold responsible and who to Blame, you get hit in two ways. The chances of produci

That is what Empathy is. When you can only view the world in terms of who to hold responsible and who to Blame, you get hit in two ways. The chances of producing a reaction, defensiveness etc increase and the chances of connecting and producing healthier outcomes decrease. Blame takes focus away from where attention needs to be. Empathy does the opposite.