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This comes off as super NIMBYish. The rise of this lifestyle is a direct result of rising inequality in our society. Yeah, that mother of 2 living in a vehicle

This comes off as super NIMBYish. The rise of this lifestyle is a direct result of rising inequality in our society. Yeah, that mother of 2 living in a vehicle probably has way bigger problems than paying for disposal service. But people utilizing services they can't pay for is what concerns you, not the fact that so many people are in such dire financial straits that living in a car makes economic sense.

throwawaysea 8y ago
Use of the word "NIMBY", which is clearly a pejorative, is not an argument. I don't see why that diminishes the parent comment at all. The rise of this lifestyle is a direct result of people feeling entitled. Take the musician in the article ("Lily"). She's trying to make a career in indie rock, playing local gigs. That can't be your full-time job unless you are exceptionally talented, to a degree where others value your creation/contributions enough to pay you a lot for it. This takes more than just musical talent - it requires experience, marketing, networking, business, and other skills. And it is of course, a highly-competitive line of work - after all, who wouldn't want their work to also be their passion. Lily lived in Nashville before, which is a lot more affordable than California cities like San Diego, Los Angeles, San Francisco, etc. San Diego is a full 55% pricier than Nashville (https://www.bankrate.com/calculators/savings/moving-cost-of-living-calculator.aspx https://www.bankrate.com/calculators/savings/moving-cost-of-...). So in effect, Lily made a conscious choice to move to a pricier area without having a plan for how to live there. A responsible way of making that move would be to work for a few years in Nashville, build up savings, identify jobs in your destination that pay enough, and then make the move. What gives Lily the right to expect she'd be accommodated in whatever city she moves to? If her work is not producing enough earning to pay for housing locally, it is because her work is not valued by society to a great enough extent to live in a very desirable (and thus expensive) area. I don't think the local community is obligated to provide lower-cost housing (either through subsidy or greater supply) to enable her choices, which squarely fall under the realm of "personal responsibility".
- shadowbannedtoo 8y ago
  Believe I'm Shadow banned (kinda like NYIBY's?), but here goes. 1. I guarantee Lilly has zero social/emotional/financial help. In the article, she claimed she didn't want to give out her last name due to family embarrassment. If true, I have seen homless individuals whom come from means, but those family members never help. I knew one lady who let her 65 year old mother live in the crawl space of her daughters house. Yes--three feet high. And she wondered why her mother drank a few beers before climbing in the sleeping bag. Another guy, I knew was homless for a decade. He was actually one of the key developers onnthe original Word Star. He died on the streets. He had nine brothers, and sisters. On Facebook, they claimed they face him 10's of thousands of dollars over the years. They were lying. I could go on, and on. 1. When your living in a vechicle, with limited funds; it's hard to think as logically as you. 2. They have a saying, homless for a year, brain damaged for life. No--Psychologists don't use the term, but the homless do. It's not a lofty concept. It's just the daily stress that comes with no shelter, no money, logical people who look at you like excrement, anxiety, depression; and an colon that isn't on a logical time plan. (Hell--I can't find a bathroom in many cities, and I'm doing ok.) 3. I'm loosing track if what I'm saying, but every homless person I have know had no real support. Their families don't help. Their friends stop returning calls. Society turns their back on them. And once you get a few tickets, you end up with a record, and worse off. Oh yea, if we don't do something about homelessness; I have a weird feeling we will see individuals breaking the law just to get into prison. 4. The the Logical guy whom I'm responding too, spend a few weeks on the streets, and see just how logical you become.

throwawaysea 8y ago

Use of the word "NIMBY", which is clearly a pejorative, is not an argument. I don't see why that diminishes the parent comment at all. The rise of this lifestyle is a direct result of people feeling entitled. Take the musician in the article ("Lily"). She's trying to make a career in indie rock, playing local gigs. That can't be your full-time job unless you are exceptionally talented, to a degree where others value your creation/contributions enough to pay you a lot for it. This takes more than just musical talent - it requires experience, marketing, networking, business, and other skills. And it is of course, a highly-competitive line of work - after all, who wouldn't want their work to also be their passion. Lily lived in Nashville before, which is a lot more affordable than California cities like San Diego, Los Angeles, San Francisco, etc. San Diego is a full 55% pricier than Nashville (https://www.bankrate.com/calculators/savings/moving-cost-of-living-calculator.aspx https://www.bankrate.com/calculators/savings/moving-cost-of-...). So in effect, Lily made a conscious choice to move to a pricier area without having a plan for how to live there. A responsible way of making that move would be to work for a few years in Nashville, build up savings, identify jobs in your destination that pay enough, and then make the move. What gives Lily the right to expect she'd be accommodated in whatever city she moves to? If her work is not producing enough earning to pay for housing locally, it is because her work is not valued by society to a great enough extent to live in a very desirable (and thus expensive) area. I don't think the local community is obligated to provide lower-cost housing (either through subsidy or greater supply) to enable her choices, which squarely fall under the realm of "personal responsibility".

shadowbannedtoo 8y ago
Believe I'm Shadow banned (kinda like NYIBY's?), but here goes. 1. I guarantee Lilly has zero social/emotional/financial help. In the article, she claimed she didn't want to give out her last name due to family embarrassment. If true, I have seen homless individuals whom come from means, but those family members never help. I knew one lady who let her 65 year old mother live in the crawl space of her daughters house. Yes--three feet high. And she wondered why her mother drank a few beers before climbing in the sleeping bag. Another guy, I knew was homless for a decade. He was actually one of the key developers onnthe original Word Star. He died on the streets. He had nine brothers, and sisters. On Facebook, they claimed they face him 10's of thousands of dollars over the years. They were lying. I could go on, and on. 1. When your living in a vechicle, with limited funds; it's hard to think as logically as you. 2. They have a saying, homless for a year, brain damaged for life. No--Psychologists don't use the term, but the homless do. It's not a lofty concept. It's just the daily stress that comes with no shelter, no money, logical people who look at you like excrement, anxiety, depression; and an colon that isn't on a logical time plan. (Hell--I can't find a bathroom in many cities, and I'm doing ok.) 3. I'm loosing track if what I'm saying, but every homless person I have know had no real support. Their families don't help. Their friends stop returning calls. Society turns their back on them. And once you get a few tickets, you end up with a record, and worse off. Oh yea, if we don't do something about homelessness; I have a weird feeling we will see individuals breaking the law just to get into prison. 4. The the Logical guy whom I'm responding too, spend a few weeks on the streets, and see just how logical you become.