I would appreciate some handholding when jumping into a new language or framework, so I don't have to waste countless hours in frustration, and I am a man. I d

I would appreciate some handholding when jumping into a new language or framework, so I don't have to waste countless hours in frustration, and I am a man. I don't understand why handholding is bad and why it should be used as an argument against women coding. When men do it, it's called mentoring.