"However, the victim and their family or friends may force a confession from the alleged criminal in any way they please." Who is doing the forcing? Is it the

"However, the victim and their family or friends may force a confession from the alleged criminal in any way they please." Who is doing the forcing? Is it the state? If so, then I agree with you. If it isn't the state, with all of the force it entails, your argument is irrelevant and invalid. You seem to be conflating social norms with state power. We can't lock up an asshole just because they are an asshole, but we sure as shit can refuse to socialize with them. What would you want to be different?