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I don't agree. As already point, many philosophers, scientists, programmers have been bitter people, largely unhappy with life. Some people are bitter by desig
by irahul 16y ago
I don't agree. As already point, many philosophers, scientists, programmers have been bitter people, largely unhappy with life.
Some people are bitter by design. No matter what I do, I will always have many complains to be unhappy about. Right now, I am trying to boot-up my startup. If it doesn't work, I will be bitter. If it works out, I will be bitter about my other pet peeve - schools killing creativity and I would like to contribute towards making it better. If it too is sorted out, I would be bitter about people being bitter about each other owing to religious, regional or some other non-rational biases. I am bitter about Government corruption and lack of infrastructure in my country. I am bitter about common man's rights not implemented in spirit. I am bitter about morons dividing people on religion and reason, and worse, people listening to them.
All of these isn't going to change(some might) in my lifetime. And the only way to be happy about it is to turn a blind eye. If happiness is ignorance, I don't seek it.
This would be blatant generalization, but many happy people I have met are blissfully ignorant. They have accepted life as is, and are happy with the current state of thing.
I generally listen to all advice, and ignore most of it - the adviser being happy or not doesn't figure in my criteria.
- mping 16y agoI believe that unless you are chemically, neurologically or biologically imbalanced, there's no excuse to be bitter or unhappy. I won't discuss happiness here, but even if the advice of some bitter person is good, I would say that an advice of a person who I lookup to will always be "better". Of course, things should be placed in context. An advice of a bitter math teacher on mathematics will always be better than an advice from a happy ignorant person. On a personal note, don't be bitter. You can accomplish the same without the bitterness, it's just weighing you down.
- zoomzoom 16y agoWhat does it mean to be chemically and biologically balanced?
- irahul 16y agoIt means the parent post assumes the world can be pigeonholed in whatever criteria he thinks/has been taught to be ideal. Anyone who doesn't fits there is abnormal in some way. He assumes there is no reason to be unhappy, completely ignoring the various reasons I have pointed out and stated that ignoring them would lead to bliss, but that's not what I seek.
- mping 16y agoIt means that your body doesn't work as it was originally designed. Simple as that.