This is a pervasive problem, where 3rd parties unintentionally emotionally effect other people with their social media posts. I was going to relate a story abou

This is a pervasive problem, where 3rd parties unintentionally emotionally effect other people with their social media posts. I was going to relate a story about how this effects people in polyamorous relationships, but then I realized this effects literally everyone who cares about anything strongly. And the long memory of digital artifacts creates additional opportunities to mess with people down the road.