> If you just assume the people there WANT to be your friend, you don't look needy and your extroverted side comes out, and you can still be yourself. Sadly,

> If you just assume the people there WANT to be your friend, you don't look needy and your extroverted side comes out, and you can still be yourself. Sadly, I believe most introverts are pretty selfish - worrying what other people think of them when, in reality, most everyone is not thinking of them - and may not even notice them. Another thing about Introverts - with most extroverts, it is fairly easy to figure out who a person is or at least who they primarily represent themselves as. With an introvert, a stranger is going to have to invest a lot more in getting to know who an introvert is - that's exhausting to some people - why expend energy figuring out the quiet ones when you can have fun talking to the loud ones.