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If you look closely, the agreement students have with Yale does not promise them empathy or emotional support. It promises an education. The idea that someone
by mikedilger 8y ago
If you look closely, the agreement students have with Yale does not promise them empathy or emotional support. It promises an education.
The idea that someone else's opinion or words 'hurt you' is entirely in your head. I'm told that wise Italian grandmothers tell their grandchildren "what other people think of you is none of your business." You can choose to be completely okay, or you can act like a baby. It's entirely your choice. Once you get that, once you embrace that, it is liberating. You are free of the slavery of other people's opinions. You are free of racism, of elitism, of sexism, of all of that s* because you realise that their opinions are meaningless to you. When it comes to physical actions, that's the line you let nobody cross, and you get the police involved. This is just part of growing up. But don't listen to me, I don't have a horse in this race, I'm not from your country, and I'm not from your generation. I'm just someone far removed from the situation spouting another meaningless opinion. There, see? You really don't care what I think. Good on ya.
- krastanov 8y agoThis is a bit dishonest (and very self aggrandizing). If you did not care you would not have commented. However I agree, there is no point in caring about the negative comments that someone throws at you if they are just comments. Too bad that usually it is not just comments, rather it is also fewer mentorship opportunities, worse starting salaries, and all the other consequences of racism. And you are wrong about the "agreement students have with Yale". There is supposedly a code of conduct that includes protecting each other's dignity.
- despera 8y agoSooo, basically racism is just a matter of ignoring racists and problem solved. Oh boy.....
- mikedilger 8y agoThat's a wild misrepresentaton of what I wrote. I was talking about what people think and say, not what they do. Actions are actionable. You can and should fight racist actions using the legal system. And if the laws aren't good enough, then let's fix them.