"Go with the flow" - it's ok for being friendly, but crap for making the life you want to live "Run away from a fight" - A knife fight sure, but in grade school

"Go with the flow" - it's ok for being friendly, but crap for making the life you want to live "Run away from a fight" - A knife fight sure, but in grade school and in metaphor it's pretty bad advice. "Smart is sufficient" - it's not even necessary