The issue is one of scale. Engaging with anyone who is troubled/hurt (esp men) is not a simple thing. Engaging with them, when they are in a troubled environme

The issue is one of scale. Engaging with anyone who is troubled/hurt (esp men) is not a simple thing. Engaging with them, when they are in a troubled environment (full of ever increasing negative triggers), surrounded by or in daily contact with other misguided folk is even more complicated. Just think about it. Say there are N troubled people in your family. And for one reason or another, none of them have access to the right mental healthcare. But instead, they have unlimited access to ever growing signals from the media/social media/internet etc that reinforce their fears, anger, distrust etc. What are your options? Until you are able to get them all access to high quality mental health care, the only other option is to reduce the negative signals they receive. There are many reasons whey high quality mental health care infrastructure and access doesn't exist. That's the main issue here. Not free speech.