You don't actually look at your own asshole. When you have children and wipe their butts a lot you realize how difficult it is to get clean even with a moisten

You don't actually look at your own asshole. When you have children and wipe their butts a lot you realize how difficult it is to get clean even with a moistened diaper wipe. Even when they start having more normal stools or are old enough to use the toilet (but not to wipe themselves). Personally I installed a Toto Washlet - one with a built-in water heater. You get used to it quickly and it makes using a standard toilet seem barbaric by comparison.