I kinda went the opposite path to the same end result. In my 20s I watched almost no porn. This was kinda crazy to most people. When I did pick up the habit

I kinda went the opposite path to the same end result. In my 20s I watched almost no porn. This was kinda crazy to most people. When I did pick up the habit for a while after I had kids, I noticed a marked decline in my interest in putting out "effort" to have romance when a video would suffice. I found porn made me lazy, not impotent. Anyway, cutting that out has been really good, it makes me have to work to maintain a healthy relationship with my wife. This is obviously anecdotal, I went through a lot of changes in that time period as well, not working out as much, having kids, etc. But it's a little thing I can control to make life happier.