The point of view that I'm attacking, whether it is shared by some of the parents or not, is "I don't know where I am, and I don't care, all that matters is tha

The point of view that I'm attacking, whether it is shared by some of the parents or not, is "I don't know where I am, and I don't care, all that matters is that I am inconvenienced by X, and therefore X is bad". If someone were to ride a road bicycle through a mountain trail, and complain about it not being paved, I'd be similarly aching to ask "maybe you're the problem?".