But it probably does have a better chance of motivating change and maybe you are still trying to help. Obviously there are different ways to air your grievances

But it probably does have a better chance of motivating change and maybe you are still trying to help. Obviously there are different ways to air your grievances, privately might be better, sure. I'm not sure if you are advocating for leaving without even giving some reasons in private. That to me would be an actively unhelpful way to leave.