> in my experience changing your name is one of the most common ways that those from other cultures try to integrate in America and minimize bias. My grandfath

> in my experience changing your name is one of the most common ways that those from other cultures try to integrate in America and minimize bias. My grandfather changed our family name (which to be fair was spelled very badly when character sets were converted). It’s funny because nobody knows what ethnicity “Comjean” is. People get confused and they are thinking about it. Adding to the confusion my parents gave me a first name from the old country. People in moments of candor ( or from New York) have told me 1. I don’t look like my name . And 2 misguessed my country of origin often putting me into their own.