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I think the meetup protocol with this app is getting it wrong by asking women to initiate. Men tend to initiate despite the rejection of interest; most women ar
by sooham 8y ago
I think the meetup protocol with this app is getting it wrong by asking women to initiate. Men tend to initiate despite the rejection of interest; most women are not as forward and find it attractive that the man approach them. Why would the app depend on women to initiate?
- soylentgraham 8y agoThink about if it was reversed. You're somewhere and there's a list of single women... Every woman there would be swarmed upon, which is a situation they already have. (Open an account on any dating app as a woman with no image, or bio, you'll still get plenty of messages/matches) The example is a good case, they might not even initiate, just stand in viewing distance of a single guy they like. Women filter their choices more than men. Bumble works for a good chunk of women who will initiate once filtered to something they're vaguely interested in. The number of conversations initiated by women on tinder must be close to 1%, if that.