Can only speak from the perspective of a long-term relationship. In my experience, one has to actively schedule it. Else it's one of the first things, which get

Can only speak from the perspective of a long-term relationship. In my experience, one has to actively schedule it. Else it's one of the first things, which get sacrificed in the daily churn. As a ground rule: quantity over quality. You should do it even if you are too tired or not in the mood. Make an appointment, if necessary.