I don't know that it's sexist. I'm not claiming that women are inferior to men. I am claiming that as far as I can tell, there is a difference between how men

I don't know that it's sexist. I'm not claiming that women are inferior to men. I am claiming that as far as I can tell, there is a difference between how men and women view the importance of a costly wedding. It's possible that you think this is a sexist idea. I don't, and I think it's just a value judgement. (ie, a preference)