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> The point is not perfection; the point is that a wedding is supposed to show affluence I would argue strongly that these two things are highly related. Nobo

> The point is not perfection; the point is that a wedding is supposed to show affluence I would argue strongly that these two things are highly related. Nobody attaches a physical price tag to their cake at the wedding - it looks immaculate, so you just assume it probably cost a lot. Also likely why people get upset when it's NOT immaculate - it looks cheaper.

Udik 8y ago
Good point. But also fewer want to haggle on prices when planning a wedding, because they're supposed to burn a relevant amount of cash anyway. When you go to buy that cake you've likely already decided how much you're going to spend in total, based on what's expected in your and your partner's background.
- wgerard 8y ago
  People don't haggle on prices because largely in western culture we just assume the price is the price and we can either pay it or go somewhere else. I imagine a fair amount of haggling goes on in cultures where that's a standard affair.
  - ghaff 8y ago
    That's true. But I can guarantee you that people who run events for a living negotiate with venues and other suppliers all the time.
- rlpb 8y ago
  Plenty of people have to organize a wedding within a budget and are under pressure to get more for their money when planning a wedding. Therefore I'm not convinced that "supposed to burn a relevant amount of cash" makes them less price sensitive.
- dragonwriter 8y ago
  > But also fewer want to haggle on prices when planning a wedding To overgeneralize a lot, but nevertheless I think that the trend is this way though it's nowhere close to an ironclad rule on any of these, petit bourgeois White Anglo-Saxon Protestants don't haggle over prices when planning a wedding. People of lower socioeconomic standing do, people of higher socioeconomic standing have agents that do it for them, and people of other ethnicities do because they don't have the cultural attitude that haggling is gauche.

Udik 8y ago

Good point. But also fewer want to haggle on prices when planning a wedding, because they're supposed to burn a relevant amount of cash anyway. When you go to buy that cake you've likely already decided how much you're going to spend in total, based on what's expected in your and your partner's background.

wgerard 8y ago
People don't haggle on prices because largely in western culture we just assume the price is the price and we can either pay it or go somewhere else. I imagine a fair amount of haggling goes on in cultures where that's a standard affair.
- ghaff 8y ago
  That's true. But I can guarantee you that people who run events for a living negotiate with venues and other suppliers all the time.
rlpb 8y ago
Plenty of people have to organize a wedding within a budget and are under pressure to get more for their money when planning a wedding. Therefore I'm not convinced that "supposed to burn a relevant amount of cash" makes them less price sensitive.
dragonwriter 8y ago
> But also fewer want to haggle on prices when planning a wedding To overgeneralize a lot, but nevertheless I think that the trend is this way though it's nowhere close to an ironclad rule on any of these, petit bourgeois White Anglo-Saxon Protestants don't haggle over prices when planning a wedding. People of lower socioeconomic standing do, people of higher socioeconomic standing have agents that do it for them, and people of other ethnicities do because they don't have the cultural attitude that haggling is gauche.